"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour

Send a text Turning points often arrive when we least expect them. As I celebrate my 36th birthday this week, I found myself at a crossroads with this podcast - something I've poured my heart into creating for nearly 200 episodes. The realization hit me like a lightning bolt: I've never given any single creative pursuit 100% of my focus and energy. My music, my performances, my writing – all have been competing for attention while I juggle multiple commitments. This podcast, as much as I lov...

Send a text What happens when two performers step back from the relentless grind of the entertainment industry to ask: "Why am I doing this?" This conversation with Abby Vatterot traces our parallel journeys from theater school through Chicago, LA, and back to our Midwest roots, revealing how our creative purposes have evolved along the way. Remember when success meant constant performing, networking every night, and pushing yourself to exhaustion? We certainly do. Abby and I candidly discus...

Send a text Everyone's talking about the little things you say How I could be the one and where we're gonna stay Funny how we could be on the same damn page When All of these things I heard was never said to me Linked, By nature and Spirit Body and mind Unexplainable chemistry How did we dream that our love would never bloom Why would we curse ourselves into unnecessary gloom Maybe the universe was supposed to intervene Give us visions of this love we would eventually need Show us...

Send a text Ever wondered what musicians do when they're freed from the constraints of playing songs exactly as recorded? Step into the electric atmosphere of Atl's JB Jazz Jam with host Dom L’Amour as he pulls back the curtain on this monthly musical playground. The wedding band singer who must perform "Fly Me to the Moon" exactly like Sinatra night after night finally gets to break the mold, experiment, and create something uniquely his own. This episode captures the raw energy, spontaneit...

Send a text The unexpected peace that comes with slowing down sits at the heart of this deeply personal episode. Dom opens up about his mental journey navigating the end of wedding season—traditionally a time when performance gaps left him anxious and frustrated. But something's different this year. Through candid reflection, Dom shares how organizing his life last year and embracing discipline this year created a foundation for accepting where he is right now. "I feel like for a long time I...

Send a text Garden wisdom, friendship, and life's little surprises bloom in this delightful conversation between Dom L'Amour and his dear friend Mattie Jo "MJ" Graham. What begins with a quirky gardening tip about lime pellets for award-winning eggplants quickly blossoms into a wide-ranging exploration of how we connect to our food, our heritage, and each other. MJ, once known as "Big Booty Judy" during her Buffalo Wild Wings days, has transformed into "Gardening Judy" with an elaborate fron...

Send a text What happens when a professional musician suddenly can't play? In this deeply reflective conversation, saxophonist Scott Box joins Dom Lamore to explore the unexpected journey of his recent hand injury and the profound questions it's raised about identity, purpose, and faith. Scott shares his raw emotional response to being sidelined from performing – the initial depression, the frustration of everyday tasks taking twice as long, and the struggle to find meaning in forced stillne...

Send a text "Song bird singing in the night. Hoping that the lyrics will make everything right. People are cheering, people are moving. Everyone is surrounded by the song birds light. Song bird does this three times a week. Always excited but ends the night weak. Tired body, tired voice, tire of the normal life outside. Outside is the truth, but the stage is just a phase. No one could make that a living, god willing you meet the right person. Song bird talks about this all the time, and...

Send a text "Will you go away with me I never thought about the simple things Smiling in sync , feeling the wind I want to do this again and again Will you go away with me My curiousity is loudly pleading Wondering do you see what I see Can you see you and me Every day is another day Seeing folks just past my way But today I stop and turn to you My truth Green grass will change it's shape Blue skys can turn to grey Love is hard and not for play Yet, I'll be willing to say ...

Send a text "My favorite part of a camp fire is when the wood begins to glow It's things like this that I think about more each day that I grow older The calm, the crackle. The smell, the smile on my face. It's magical. When I was younger I didn't look out the window and see. I saw a bunch of nothing. Now I see the trees, the sky, the water, the life that's happening in front of me. I enjoy just how rare it is to see and hear how beautiful those things are. Our society is stuck in boxes...

Send a text "Time. 6/27/24 12:49pm. Location Poem was written. Sharpsburg GA. Home, Saint Louis Doesn’t matter where I live in the world! Chicago. My home is saint louis. Los Angeles. My home in saint Louis No matter where I visit in the world Nassau. My home is Saint Louis Dublin. My home is saint louis. It doesn’t matter. Will you support the Atlanta braves? If the cardinals aren’t playing…maybe You must love living in a town with a football team. You live the falcons right. My footba...

Send a text Have you ever wondered if our hyper-connected world is actually making us more disconnected from what truly matters? In this profoundly human conversation, host Dom L'Amour sits down with musician Jacob Zengerling to explore the spaces between digital noise and genuine human connection. The pair navigate through deceptively simple questions with far-reaching implications: Why do we cling to arbitrary New Year's resolutions when ancient civilizations followed natural cycles? How h...

Send a text When happiness breaks through anxiety, do you grab it with both hands? That precious moment of joy becomes something to savor, especially when the mind constantly works against you. In this soulful conversation, Shane Murphy opens up about the internal battle between finding creative fulfillment and maintaining financial security. Shane's journey from self-described loner to partner reveals how love transforms perspective. "Everything is so much freer and I feel so much more conf...

Send a text "When kids draw to you, they see your heart." This simple but profound observation sets the tone for a rich conversation between Dom L’Amour and his best friend Chris Bates about what truly matters in our relationships with family, work, and ourselves. The episode begins with Chris sharing his unexpected joy in working from home while raising his daughter Jaide. Rather than feeling the guilt that many parents experience when balancing careers and childcare, he's discovered a rhyt...

Send a text Take a seat and get ready to test your knowledge alongside Dom and Bates as they face off in an electrifying game of Black Jeopardy on this special episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast. What starts with a simple rock-paper-scissors showdown quickly evolves into a riveting battle of wits across five categories: Black TV shows, music, pop culture, Black history, and movie quotes. The chemistry between Dom and Bates drives this episode, as they navigate questions rangin...

Send a text "If you weren't so damn nice, you'd be successful." These words, spoken to Dom L’Amour years ago, sparked a profound journey of self-discovery that unfolds throughout this intimate conversation with Cleveland Jones. For artists navigating the music industry, establishing your value doesn't come with a handbook. Cleveland openly shares the moment someone told him he was "like a hoe that people can pimp out" because he didn't recognize his own worth—a brutal assessment that c...

Send a text When everything feels overwhelming—from global conflicts to personal struggles—how do we find clarity and peace? This raw mental check-in episode explores the powerful intersection between worldwide chaos and individual challenges that many of us are silently navigating. Sharing my personal journey toward an 8.5/10 mental state, I reveal how removing social media apps from my phone transformed my ability to think clearly, connect meaningfully, and rediscover creative focus. This ...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Christopher Shank about our creative process, being more organized, working on ourselves and so much more. What if the secret to creativity isn't waiting for inspiration to strike, but simply showing up consistently? In this thoughtful conversation with screenwriter and friend of the show Christopher Shank, we dive deep into the mechanics of the creative process and challenge the notion that artists need to wait for the perfect moment of inspira...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with my girl Maria Bartolotta about Her 10 years of being sober, struggles with moving, Relationships with family and friends, and so much more. Grateful drunks never drink." These six words have carried Maria Bartolotta through a decade of sobriety—a journey that began in a world almost unrecognizable from today. Think: Blockbuster stores still open, Netflix mailing DVDs, BlackBerry phones, and Ebola dominating health headlines. Dom Lamour and Maria dive deep ...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Larry Rodriguez aka @larryrodgram about Expectations around the holidays, GNX, The State of Cinema and so much more! "Why are these girls twerking? Why do I see movies everywhere? Why is it constantly showing me stuff I show no interest in?" These aren't just random questions—they're part of a deeper reflection on how we consume digital content versus how carefully we once selected what went into our bodies. In this thought-provoking episode, Dom L’Amour a...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show of the show Ryan O'fallon AKA @Ofallonryan about going to college in Cape Girardeau, Life in the Air force and Growth. Dive into an engaging exploration of relationships, personal growth, and life lessons woven seamlessly into the experiences shared through the years at Southeast Missouri State University and the vibrant culture of Cape Girardeau. In this episode, Dom and special guest Ryan O'Fallon reflect on their time in college, discu...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show Jon Chester about his New Marriage and his final thoughts before getting married, and the meaning behind Working Smarter not Harder. Discover the intricate balance of wedding planning and emotional connection! This episode emphasizes the need to prioritize moments that truly matter, pushing against the chaos often associated with organizing a wedding. • Navigating overwhelm while planning • Finding peace in moments of chaos ...

Send a text Amid the chaos of the music industry, how does one find the perfect equilibrium between self-care and discipline? Join me and my good friend, musician Michael Harvey, as we unravel this balancing act on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast. We explore the crucial role of self-care practices like journaling, therapy, and meditation while emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and taking time for yourself outside of work. Discover how paying attention to the details, whe...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Jacob Buckenmyer (@jabucke) about Drinking, The California Fires, Education and so much more! What happens when you mix the heart of Los Angeles with an exploration of emotions, food, and culture? I'm joined by my friend Jacob Buckenmyer to unpack the myths surrounding LA’s identity, especially in the face of the California fires, and to challenge the stereotype of it being just a playground for the elites. We dive into our personal journeys with alcohol, f...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show J Boogie AKA Jon Butts AKA @jonbuttsishere! Can Kendrick Lamar's lyrical genius outshine Drake's chart-topping dominance? Join us on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as we navigate this intricate rivalry with our insightful guest, Jon Butts. We'll revisit the explosive moment Kendrick's "control" verse shook the hip-hop world and dissect how the tension between these two titans illuminates the fine line between pure artistry and com...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show aka best friend of the show Chris Bate AKA @chriselb_88. What if the key to understanding global politics lies in our own living rooms, wrapped in family traditions and heartfelt conversations? Join us on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as we navigate through the intricate world of politics and personal growth. Together with my close friend Chris Bates, we untangle the complexities surrounding President Biden's current challenges,...

Send a text Ever wondered why it's crucial to educate yourself before heading to the polls? In this heartfelt finale of the season, I, Dom L'Amour, share my journey of political self-discovery and the imperative of personal research when choosing leaders like Kamala Harris. Initially poised to break down my reasons for supporting her, I instead realized the futility of convincing those unwilling to research themselves. Instead, I am channeling my energy into real-world activism by volunteerin...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Mark Reichard AKA @pluark about living in la working in the film industry, politics and so much more. Join us as we navigate the intricate relationship between staying informed in politics and the industry dynamics in Los Angeles. We start with a heartfelt chat on why it's crucial to hold our leaders, especially those like Kamala Harris, to the highest standards. From the importance of staying vigilant against unchecked political tactics to the ...

Send a text Dom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast. Ever wondered how to balance the demands of work and personal life while still giving your best self to loved ones? Inspired by a powerful James Baldwin interview, we reflect on the importance of nurturing relationships with acts of service and presence, even after a tough day. This episode of Black Man Talking Emotions wraps up season two with a heartfelt discussion on balancing professional a...

Send a text Dom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast. What happens when the traumas of our parents shape our future relationships? This episode kicks off with a heartfelt conversation about breaking the cycle of generational trauma. Our guest opens up about the impact of her parents' divorce on her own relationships and her journey to be the mother she never had. She shares her fears and hopes upon learning she was having a daughter, and how the su...

Send a text Dom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast. How has the internet shaped our perceptions of abstinence, finances, and personal goals? Discover how authenticity in creative pursuits, especially in the music industry, can lead to lasting recognition rather than fleeting social media fame. Join me, Dom L’Amour, as we explore the profound influence of digital platforms on our decisions and underscore the importance of genuine face-to-face con...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Leana Welker AKA (@Leanadelalune) about Transitioning to a new gender, the struggles, and the rewards of the move. What does it truly mean to live authentically? This week, we sit down with Leana Welker, who shares her heartfelt journey of transitioning from male to female over the past year. You'll hear about the intricate layers of self-love, the nuanced changes in personal expression, and the mixed bag of reactions from family and friends. L...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Nic Tayborn ( @nictbone ) about Apple vs. Andriod, Mistakes, judgement and so much more. Can a single debate spark a deeper understanding of our daily tech choices? Tune in as we dissect the age-old rivalry between Apple and Android. My guest, Nic Tayborn, brings a perspective, challenging my views and igniting a lively discussion that extends beyond tech into the personal realm. Nic shares the unique experience of enrolling a Covid-era child i...

Send a text I share a deeply personal poem, "Picture, this Picture that," inspired by my recent trip to the National Center for Civil and Human Rights in Atlanta. My wife and I were profoundly moved by the stories of resilience and courage, especially that of six-year-old Ruby Bridges, who faced unimaginable adversity just to go to school. Her bravery and the broader struggles of African-Americans during the civil rights era prompted me to create something meaningful that I couldn't wait to s...

Send a text What does it feel like to face a world that questions your humanity before you even understand what that means? Imagine being six years old, dressed in new clothes, and carrying fresh books with a heart full of hope, only to encounter barriers built by centuries of prejudice. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey through a single day in the life of a young child growing up in a racially charged society. You'll hear about the simple joys and harsh realities that shape their...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Shannon O'Keefe AKA @Shannondances about life after her dance career, communication, knowing your limits, looking out for your own well being and so much more. Have you ever taken a leap of faith and left behind something you loved? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Shannon O'Keefe, who transitioned from a life dedicated to dance to discovering fulfillment beyond the stage. Shannon talks about how dance served as her lifeline through a...

Send a text !!! LISTEN TO "HERE TO ENTERTAIN VOL.2" ON ALL STREAMING PLATFORMS !!! Have you ever wondered how personal experiences shape an artist’s music? In this heartfelt episode celebrating my 35th birthday, join me, Dom L'Amour, as I give you an exclusive glimpse into my latest project, "Here to Entertain, Vol 2." This live EP features rejuvenated versions of songs from my earlier albums and fresh tracks from my upcoming work, "Domie" Through personal stories and raw emotion, you'll lea...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with My guy Ben Stevens AKA @theworstsingerever about Being a father, Music, being married and so much more. Imagine being known as "the worst singer alive" and using that label to fuel your rise in the music industry. Today, we bring you the inspiring journey of Benjamin Stevens, a singer and performer who has embraced criticism and transformed it into self-acceptance. Benjamin takes us back to his early influences, from the soulful sounds of Marvin Gaye's "Di...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with friend of the show Jessica Trapp AKA (@trappedinhealth) about Communicating about sex, communicating about money and so much more. How often do you talk about sex and money with your partner? On this powerful episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast, we break the silence on these crucial, yet often avoided, topics in relationships. Dom L'Amour kicks off the conversation by underscoring how financial instability can severely impact mental health an...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show and my best friend Chris Bate AKA @chriselb_88. They have a mental check in and also speak about having babies. Imagine wanting to start a family but being faced with the complex world of male infertility and fertility treatments. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have a deeper understanding of the emotional, financial, and logistical hurdles that come with this journey. Join me, Dom L'Amour, and my friend Chris Ba...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Hannah Moore AKA @hannahmatthewsmoore about becoming a mother, How her past has affected her present, Moving to and From NYC and so much more. What happens when life throws you a curveball and old methods no longer cut it? Join me and my guest, Hannah Moore, as we uncover the art of adjusting to life's unexpected changes. From her rapid-paced life in New York City to the serene yet demanding journey of motherhood, Hannah shares her candid refle...

Send a text Have you ever wondered if achieving your dreams could still leave you feeling a longing for something more? This episode takes you on a personal journey from the turbulence of early adulthood to a life enriched with love, stability, and a fulfilling music career. Yet, amidst all this success, an insistent yearning to create remains. We explore the delicate balance between personal aspirations and everyday responsibilities, and question the nature of true satisfaction and the pursu...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Sam Niehaus AKA @samuel_henry_niehaus about Moving across the country, working on yourself, my struggles with being a Vegan and so much more. What sparks a monumental life change? In today's episode, we explore just that with Sam Niehaus, who left the familiar streets of St. Louis for the rugged beauty of Denver. Sam's story is a testament to the transformative power of embracing new adventures—from snowboarding down Colorado's powdery slopes t...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with Jacob Buckenmyer (@jabucke) about the actor/writers stike, how traveling shapes your world view, AI and so much more. Can mindful caffeine consumption enhance your well-being? Join us as we kick off this episode with our guest, Jacob Buckenmyer, to explore this intriguing question. We start by sharing the vibrant atmosphere of live concerts, where the absence of phones fosters deeper social connections. Our conversation then transitions to the mindfu...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Jon Butts AKA J Boogie @jonbuttsishereabout our feelings on the state of the upcoming election. What if the political landscape is more fragile than we think? Join me, Dom L'Amour, on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as I sit down with my good friend J Boogie, aka Jon Butts, to dissect the current state of U.S. politics and its looming impact on the upcoming election. We unravel the complexities behind eroding voter bases, President Biden...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Heath Kennedy AKA @heathbuh about Family, acting, goals and so much more. Ever wondered how a chance encounter can blossom into a lifetime of laughter and love? Heath Kennedy, a close friend whose life story could fuel a dozen rom-coms, joins me, Dom L'Amour, for an episode that dances between the joyous mayhem of fatherhood and the electric thrill of chasing comedy dreams. With the welcome chaos of his fourth child, Heath and I delve into the ...

Send a text When I sat down across from Linda Marks, I couldn't help but feel the weight of her story — a tale of a harrowing battle with anorexia during her teenage years, a poignant reminder of the danger of societal pressures and external expectations. Our conversation takes shape around the transformative journey of healing and growth, embracing the cultural traditions and personal rituals that foster our well-being. As Linda opens up about the delicate art of tuning into our own physical...

Send a text Dom L'Amour speaks with good friend Jeff Holtmeier AKA @jeff_holtmeier about Career choices, being a father and husband, things we miss from college, and so much more. When Reverend Jeff Holtmeier and I, sit down to chat, the air fills with a blend of laughter and introspection that only old friends can stir up. Jeff’s journey from the revelry of our college days to the rich fulfillment of family life in Washington, Missouri, paints a vivid picture of the transformative power of ...

Send a text I had the privilege of celebrating Mother's Day by inviting the queen of my heart, my mother, onto the Black man Talking Emotions podcast for a tribute unlike any other. Our conversation is a tapestry woven with the threads of intimate revelations, laughter over shared musical soul-ties like Prince's "Adore," and the profound longing to connect with loved ones lost to time. It's a journey through the corridors of our past, revisiting the safety of childhood memories and the ...

Send a text Dom L'Amour has a mid season check in. Navigating the tumultuous waters of a creative life, I've often found myself at the mercy of my own inner critic and the unintended barbs of loved ones. This episode is a raw exploration of my mid-season journey, where I lay bare the struggles and triumphs that have shaped the narrative of my life and work. You're invited to experience the vulnerability of an artist who wrestles with the distractions of a digital world and the pressure-cooker...